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Rabu, 17 Mei 2023

Apparently, Dating Is also Have Possitive Effect (Mahrus Imam)

 

Apparently, Dating Is also Have Possitive Effect



Life is one unity that can’t be separated from people, but the meaning of life can be gone if a man is dead. Life has its own way in humans, the way of life that is always filled by pleasure and way of life that is always filled by distress. However, there is no any of them that the way of their life just filled by one of the road. All of human beings would have both. Find a companion lived through an appointment marriage is one example of the way of life that filled by pleasure. Instead, when a humanhas a trouble even he can’tfind a companion life is an example of the way of life that filled by distress. Not as easy as flipping a palm to find life companion, surely every person will experience struggle ever. Therefore life will not always straight the way, certainly there will be mixed between pleasure and distress. Our life will continue to broke, if we do not enjoy it. It is in accordance with the words of one of the sponsor of mineral water with the name of Qleo. “Life it like coffee, if we do not enjoy it then it taste will be bitter”

A little discuss about marriage, marriage is unite a sacred promise between the two human to foster life together. This is where usually humans will feel very happy. Before exploring the wedding, people tend to do something to find a life couple that right. Like dating, engagement and so on that there are some differences view here. Like all of people tend to think positive about engagement, because engagement usually ended romantic at the altar. But not to dating that is usually done in the school, they always think any negative against about dating. Of course dating is not always ended up in the altar or a promise of marriage, because of the time of dating with the wedding is a time is not a minute. Where are dating is usually done in the school, while the wedding usually implemented after the school. If there is a couple is married after they are dating since the school, then they are a pair of greatlovers. Because they have a relationship is very long time,But that is kind of rare. Some people who have a relationship with the dating tend to have fun only, so that appear various any negative effects caused by it. Like pregnant outside the marriage until lose the life because of the term dating. Actually dating is not always any negative impact, dating can also have a positive impact for people who do it. Like the spirit of in doing anything. Many things that can be categorized in this case, but everything will be summarized into three positive effects of dating.

The first positive effect is the spirit of worship. Of course it will only do by someone who really wanted his partner is devout. This is certainly thereis no difference between the younger or older, a guy or a girl. If they caring for her partner, then they do not think of it. If there is someoneis not diligent to worship before, of course he will be diligent to worship if he always considered by their partners to be diligent to worship. One of example how someone gives attention to their partner is “Do not forget to pray first before contact me”. There are many otherexamples in this issue. But if the associated with prayer, then the woman who really wanted his partner diligent in terms of prayer. Because they have a statement that they do not want to have a priest or the leader of the family was not diligent prayer.

The second Positive effect is the spirit of learning. Most people think it is not true. Because in reality dating will seized all the time there was only used as dating just fine. The examples are telephone, chatting and the like. All of that is true, but the effect of any negative this could turn out to be the effects of which have a positive impact if we reflecting on the first positive effects. Someone would spirit in the study if their partner is always reminded him, gave the spirit, as well as support. This positive effect is likely to be a girl to her boy. This is because one reason and that reason were very strong, namely work. If the boywas not diligent to study, of course he would have trouble in looking for a job. Most of the girls do not want it happen. Therefore they always remind her partner to always diligent to study. Finally, a statement that would emerge from the boy if he always be considered by their partners that he love. “I diligent to study because I was aware, ‘I Love You’ word is not enough to ensure your future”.

The third Positive effect is the spirit to be healthy. Each couple certainly would not want to his partner is hungry or sick. Certainly many know will it. Of course every couple would pay attention to his partners to be healthy. Like, always remind to eat, ask as well as to meet their partner only to provide food. Surely each couple did not want to see his partner did not healthy. Then if there is a partner who wants to see his partner did not healthy ones mean the partner is a strange partner.

The conclusion, way of life is distinguished into two kind namely pleasure and distress. Found a couple life andit ended up by saying the promise of marriage is an example of the way of life with pleasure. In the opposite, then that includes in an example of the way of life with distress. Before exploring the marriage, humans usually will do thing to look for a right couple life. Like dating, fiancée and the like. Engagement will usually ends with the wedding, but rarely to dating. Certainly many peoples know if dating to be any negative impact on the perpetrator. The examples are pregnant outside the marriage until lose the life because of the term dating. But not a lot of people know that dating can have a positive impact, even though they never experienced it. Among them are the spirit of worship, learning, and the spirit to be healthy.

The three effects can only be achieved if any couples want to concede each other and do not forget to fling of the selfish. Do not be someone who wants always to be true. If it is recommended by your partner are true, then do it. Surely every religion on the planet has its own regulations in this issue. So ifhis suggestionwas strayed from the norm of religion, so do not do it. This kind of thing is likely to cause any negative effects finally. The point is doing like what had been conveyed above, which is going back off and fling of the selfish. If not, then one of effects from the three would not be achieved. So get positive effects of dating only to be a wishful thinking.

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